The First One - Introduction

Hi, and welcome to the married life blog of Tink and SansSerif. We are glad you could join us.

Today is our one monthiversary. We are still in that honeymoon stage. And loving almost every minute of it. This last month has gone by so fast. Sans and I have both been sick, I had to go through hell for a name change and a new car. Trying to do our thank you notes and answer email. Going through pictures and getting them out to everyone.

On top of that all, we have had normal family time, cleaning, a bunch of construction on our apartment building and parking lot, no mail for a week (because of said construction), a hospital visit, and birthdays.

It's been just a little crazy. We had our first married couple fight the other night. Over use of the internet.

We have several computers. The problem? We have one that is in working order right now. I used to use the laptop while he was watching TV and plan stuff for the wedding. Well, three weeks before the wedding, the pin broke off in the power port. We were told that we had to send the computer back to ACER to have it replaced and it would take 6-8 weeks to come back. Well, we needed the info off the hard drive for the wedding. Needless to say, the dead computer is still sitting in the office, unsent. So, we are currently using his computer. He plays a few video games, and has hours on the computer. After two days of not even looking at the computer, I went in to check my email and a few other things. Within two minutes of sitting down, Sans comes over to me and asks if he can get on.

It's his computer, so I just got up and left the room. Minutes later, he asked if I was mad at him. I said yes, and explained why. Only I wasn't speaking, I was very close to yelling at him. This is not normally how we communicate. Once he understood the reason, he thought about it, and apologized. I felt bad for yelling at him, because it wasn't something I should have really gotten mad at him about. I should have just said something to him. But it was over within a few minutes, although the whole scenario put me in kind of a bad mood for the rest of the night.

But, it did take us almost a month to have a fight. And it was quite minor. And quite blown out of proportion.

Anyway, so this is our introduction. We have goals for the next year, and of course dreams. It will be fantastic to get on these things and solve all the problems, but, you know... we are young, and not all problems are solvable. We'll just have to see what happens.